Many of us have done a really good job with one very specific thing when it comes to our marriages: Scaring our spouses into an awareness that if he/she cheats, then it. Is. OVER.
But guess what? There’s a step to take before you get to the threats and guilt. And it has to do with — surprise! — communication.
OK, no one is surprised. You’re right.
Check out my ideas about how to affair-proof your marriage here.