Turns out, there’s a fine line between adding kink and eroticism to a relationship.
And for most of us, we’d pass on the former in favor of a LOT of the latter.
So how do you get to a place in your relationship that celebrates the erotic? A place where the unknown is welcome, where private turn-ons are shared and play is encouraged?
I have one word for you: Safety.
Sounds boring, right? But trust me when I say, building a relationship on safety will open new doors for eroticism. Explore this idea in this article, which originally appeared in my column in the Reno Gazette-Journal.