Our resources of time, treasure, and talent are not infinite. When we fail to perform our due diligence when selecting a mate, we impoverish ourselves emotionally and spiritually.
Family & Relationships
Is integrating sexuality & spirituality really a human need? It is, but instead of seeking sexual information from a church, consider going within.
Imagine having the perfect sex life, perfect in every way. Then imagine that perfect sex life without x: is it still perfect?
Just as with skin pigmentation, height, or caloric needs, when it comes to our need for sexual touch we are all somewhere on the scale of normal human diversity.
Sexual fantasies are Mother Nature's changing room in the sexual department store of life. Once inside the privacy of my own mind, I can try ideas on for size.
The intelligent management of sexuality & discovering our sexual needs is hindered by a number of variables, but they ultimately are ideas (like the seatbelt) that will catch on.
Sexual needs start in childhood and they are part of us for as long as we live. It's time we started talking about them.
We're all supposed to have sex with someone we're interested in before deciding to get permamently hitched, right? The problem is that when we do, the data collected isn't really relevant to the task at hand: finding a compatible mate.
Sure, you two can do it, but can you talk about it? Most people have figured out the mechanics of “doin' it,” but very few people can talk about sexuality.
Do you think "safe sex" means using a condom? Making sure consent is explicit? You're right, but there's so much more.