Sexual Futurist™ Blog

10.21.2020 | Family & Relationships

In the last 30 years of my practice, those who have committed sex crimes have a 100% participation in three epic failures in their personal lives: career, friendship, and love.

 

10.21.2020 | Family & Relationships

It’s weird when you think about it, right? We manage our finances, our careers, our diets, our vacation planning—really just about anything but our sexuality gets the intelligent management treatment.

10.02.2020 | Family & Relationships

When I ask sex offenders the question, "What would you like to get out of therapy?" the most common response over decades is, "I'd like to know how this happened."

 

10.02.2020 | Family & Relationships

For the last 21 years, I've worked as a sex offender counselor helping people who have been accused or convicted of sex crimes. We could all learn a lot from their stories.

09.10.2020 | Family & Relationships

Any close examination of the term reveals a number of the field's dirty little secrets. None are pretty.

08.28.2020 | Family & Relationships

OK then, if it's not sex addiction, what is the problem? Well, for starters, it's worse than you think.

08.20.2020 | Family & Relationships

So, you think you're a sex addict?

 

08.05.2020 | Family & Relationships

Most of us have experienced regret about getting into a committed relationship with someone who turned out to have been so very wrong for us.

 

07.30.2020 | Family & Relationships

"Why don't they teach this in school? Everybody should know this!" A reasonable question for a society that preaches the importance of family but provides little direction for success.

 

07.25.2020 | Family & Relationships

No, you're not too picky. We all have personal deal breakers that come up as we try to figure out how to have a great relationship and a sublimely happy future.

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