Sexual Futurist™ Blog
We are all much more than just romance and sex. Having close friendships outside of a romantic relationship is valuable for the relationship itself.
Yes, we're a social species and yes, we're hardwired for falling in love, and yes we (mostly) all like sex...so what could possibly go wrong?
Abuse, like sexuality, falls on a continuum.
Getting into a relationship based on equality doesn't just happen; you have to build it.
OK, so that last boyfriend was a real pain. Good riddance to him but, how to find one of the good ones?
Failure to integrate our sexuality and spirituality creates disaster because our values are there to guide us and without their illumination, we are blinded.
The idea is that religion will sort things out: We'll no longer be confused about right and wrong, we'll understand how we should live, we'll be surrounded by good examples, and on and on. What could possibly go wrong?
In the last 30 years of my practice, those who have committed sex crimes have a 100% participation in three epic failures in their personal lives: career, friendship, and love.