Sexual Futurist™ Blog

04.02.2021 |

Reinvention: Steve Ing – ‘A Name Does Not Define Me’

03.09.2021 | Family & Relationships

We are all much more than just romance and sex. Having close friendships outside of a romantic relationship is valuable for the relationship itself.

01.29.2021 | Family & Relationships

Yes, we're a social species and yes, we're hardwired for falling in love, and yes we (mostly) all like what could possibly go wrong?

01.14.2021 | Family & Relationships

Abuse, like sexuality, falls on a continuum.

12.09.2020 | Family & Relationships

Getting into a relationship based on equality doesn't just happen; you have to build it.

12.03.2020 | Family & Relationships

OK, so that last boyfriend was a real pain. Good riddance to him but, how to find one of the good ones?

11.20.2020 | Family & Relationships

Failure to integrate our sexuality and spirituality creates disaster because our values are there to guide us and without their illumination, we are blinded.


11.20.2020 | Family & Relationships

The idea is that religion will sort things out: We'll no longer be confused about right and wrong, we'll understand how we should live, we'll be surrounded by good examples, and on and on. What could possibly go wrong?

10.21.2020 | Family & Relationships

In the last 30 years of my practice, those who have committed sex crimes have a 100% participation in three epic failures in their personal lives: career, friendship, and love.


10.21.2020 | Family & Relationships

It’s weird when you think about it, right? We manage our finances, our careers, our diets, our vacation planning—really just about anything but our sexuality gets the intelligent management treatment.