Sexual Futurist™ Blog

07.25.2020 | Family & Relationships

No, you're not too picky. We all have personal deal breakers that come up as we try to figure out how to have a great relationship and a sublimely happy future.

07.16.2020 | Family & Relationships

There are two specific types of variables, both deal breakers, that can keep two people from having a successful, loving relationship. Let's talk about the first one.

07.07.2020 | Family & Relationships

The “Intentional Interview” can help to increase awareness of mental health problems that could sabotage our efforts at having a great relationship.


07.01.2020 | Family & Relationships

Our resources of time, treasure, and talent are not infinite. When we fail to perform our due diligence when selecting a mate, we impoverish ourselves emotionally and spiritually.

06.18.2020 | Family & Relationships

Is integrating sexuality & spirituality really a human need? It is, but instead of seeking sexual information from a church, consider going within.

06.10.2020 | Family & Relationships

Imagine having the perfect sex life, perfect in every way. Then imagine that perfect sex life without x: is it still perfect?

06.03.2020 | Family & Relationships

Just as with skin pigmentation, height, or caloric needs, when it comes to our need for sexual touch we are all somewhere on the scale of normal human diversity.

05.27.2020 | Family & Relationships

Sexual fantasies are Mother Nature's changing room in the sexual department store of life.  Once inside the privacy of my own mind, I can try ideas on for size.

05.20.2020 | Family & Relationships

The intelligent management of sexuality & discovering our sexual needs is hindered by a number of variables, but they ultimately are ideas (like the seatbelt) that will catch on.

05.14.2020 | Family & Relationships

Sexual needs start in childhood and they are part of us for as long as we live. It's time we started talking about them.