Sexual Futurist™ Blog

Discovery in a relationship involves questions. It involves research. It involves stepping outside of yourself and your limited view and inviting another in for an exploration of important matters.

How do you get to a place in your relationship that celebrates the erotic? A place where the unknown is welcome, where private turn-ons are shared and play is encouraged?

Wouldn’t it be helpful to know the mistakes I see my well-intentioned clients making every day in their relationships? Now you can.

Making resolutions for the New Year can be a tricky business. If the goals are too lofty, you’ll likely fall short; if you don’t make them at all, you’ll wish you had.

We can offer simple, affirming gifts for everyone on our list — our significant other, our children, even our friends — by nourishing our spirituality and our sexuality.

Using your words and asking for explicit consent — to hold someone’s hand, for a hug, if you’d like to call a colleague after hours and chat about non-work stuff — is the surest, easiest, safest way to ensure you’re on the same page.

In the past few months, I have routinely encountered a few of the same questions/comments about what others are rightly calling “The Reckoning.”

It’s the easy — and altogether wrong — thing to do.

Help us celebrate Transgender Awareness Week by learning these simple tips to an open, honest conversation about sexuality.

We need to stop asking when the wave of allegations will stop, and instead, we need to ask how it all began.