Breaking the Cycle: Understanding and Changing Abusive Behavior | Steven Ing, MFT S4E10

Most men commit abuse out of entitlement, not anger, but what if change is possible—even for the most broken? Steven Ng, a licensed therapist with decades of experience working directly with domestic violence perpetrators, reveals groundbreaking insights about the root causes of abuse and the real paths to transformation.

He shares deeply personal stories—from witnessing childhood violence to surviving a life-threatening attack—and explains how understanding that abuse is a choice, not an uncontrollable impulse, can be the first step toward genuine change. Steven breaks down: why traditional therapy often fails with abusive men, the importance of male-only spaces for meaningful accountability, and why cultural shifts start with teaching boys what true masculinity looks like.

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