Steven’s Blog on Psychology Today

Divorce doesn't "cause" our children to neglect their studies.

Waiting to address sexual wellness until you need the services of a sex therapist is like waiting to address physical and nutritional needs until you get type 2 diabetes.

Narcissism, in fact, is the brain's recognition that the two of us have a high degree of compatibility.

When it comes to preventing a divorce, you're going to be well-served by performing some thoughtful due diligence in the form of an intentional interview.

Oftentimes in relationships one partner "wants" sex more than the other. This, inevitably, sets the relationship up for challenges.

We don't have to hate divorce like God does; instead, we can be grateful that there is a way out of marital disasters.

Despite what any person or religion says, everyone deserves a happy and fulfilling marriage and has the right to leave one that has failed.

Fantasizing is our brain's way of projecting a future scenario or trying ideas on for size.

A relationship is only real, only sustainable, when the two adults in it are authentically themselves.

Imagine that your son or daughter is in a relationship as profoundly dissatisfying as your own. What would you advise your adult child to do?