Steven’s Blog on Psychology Today

No, you're not too picky. We all have personal deal breakers that come up as we try to figure out how to have a great relationship and a sublimely happy future.

There are two specific types of variables, both deal breakers, that can keep two people from having a successful, loving relationship. Let's talk about the first one.

The “Intentional Interview” can help to increase awareness of mental health problems that could sabotage our efforts at having a great relationship.

Our resources of time, treasure, and talent are not infinite. When we fail to perform our due diligence when selecting a mate, we impoverish ourselves emotionally and spiritually.

Is integrating sexuality & spirituality really a human need? It is, but instead of seeking sexual information from a church, consider going within.

Imagine having the perfect sex life, perfect in every way. Then imagine that perfect sex life without x: is it still perfect?

Sexual fantasies are Mother Nature's changing room in the sexual department store of life. Once inside the privacy of my own mind, I can try ideas on for size.

The intelligent management of sexuality & discovering our sexual needs is hindered by a number of variables, but they ultimately are ideas (like the seatbelt) that will catch on.

Sexual needs start in childhood and they are part of us for as long as we live. It's time we started talking about them.